There is platonic love based on friendship and respect that is non-sexual in nature & then there is plutonic love! Huge difference! Plutonian love is everything; it is all encompassing. It rules love, hate, sex, passion, anger, jealousy, and transformation. Like a pendulum swinging from one extreme to the next with only one clear indication; afterwards you will never be the same.
He has marked my life in two parts
Before & After
I consider myself to be plutonian by nature my Sun in the 2nd decan of Cancer ruled by Scorpio, my Moon is placed in Aries (Mars is the lower octave of Pluto) with Uranus (my chart ruler) & Pluto natal in the 8th house. I’ve always been interested in astrology on a superficial level (oh yes Libra & Aquarius are compatible blah blah). After experiencing plutonic love I found myself delving head first into synastry in typical Pluto fashion, I yearned to control the outcome and when I couldn’t I wanted to know why. Why didn’t we work out?! Why didn’t he just abandon his entire life as he knew it & come linger with me in the deep end of the ocean? Ridiculous, I know but Pluto wants what it wants!
There are entire sights dedicated to Pluto contacts in synastry, properly equipped with warning labels. They offer claims that Pluto always has the upper hand & the planet person feels it more. I don’t know about that. All I know is I’m forever changed. Plutonic love isn’t black and white; it holds many shades of gray. It isn’t the type of amore you place in a nice neat box & wrap with a pretty pink ribbon. It unearths all that is hidden perhaps even from yourself. I feel okay at the present moment; very much in control (very Plutonian) I will not let this feeling overrule my head nor my life. I don’t cry I let it go. I let him go though at times I feel haunted. As though his energy is pulling me in and somehow it seeps into my world just when I’m going about a normal day. I tell my friends he stalks my mind. I can’t quite reconcile the difference between fate and coincidence, recently having received a piece of junk mail for him at my house, stuck to my mail. Another time while at line in a bookstore 2 people waiting in front of me were discussing a party he is hosting. I joke with my friends and tell them I’m going to call 911 the next time this happens
911 what’s your emergency?
Uh I would like to report a drive by sighting?
Everyone talks about Pluto opposition Venus like they are living in their own personal hell. I wonder is there anybody out there that has had Pluto aspecting every single planet of another person’s chart like I have. From the Sun to the Moon to Mercury, to Venus and Mars, Uranus, Saturn Neptune and Chiron, Ascendant and the Midheaven. I’m beginning to wonder if I should start a support group. Though perhaps I should be happy I didn’t know him longer.
I use to contact him when these silly things happened, in a thinly vailed attempt to get him to realize we did indeed belong together, but now I just assume he will think I have lost my mind completely so I let it be. Though slightly resentful these things do not happen to him. Why? Guess some questions have no answers. Past lives and karmic ties, do you want to cut them someone asked me. No, I replied then quickly asked since we aren’t together in this life does this mean I have to go through this shit again in my next.
I let him go, I have a vision that I will see him one day at Wholefoods and he will have found a lighter love, someone you can place in that pretty little Tiffany’s box and that feeling will pass between us, the feeling of being nothing and everything at the same time.
Pluto Square Sun Synastry
Mesmerizing, deep, dark, compulsive, intense, beautiful
Pluto conjunct Moon Synastry
Emotionally intense, jealousy, possessive, transparency, unconscious needs fulfilled, karmic, healing of moons emotional wounds, telepathy, psychic connection
Shallow sorrows and shallow loves live on. The loves and sorrows that are great are destroyed by their own plenitude -Oscar Wilde
Pluto inconjunct Mercury Synastry
Unexpected heavy conversations, under a light, released mental blocks, opening of the mind
Maybe that’s what happens when a tornado meets a volcano All I know is I love you too much to walk away~ Eminem
Pluto Opposition Mars Synastry
Angry sex, control, arguments, aggression, love the way you lie, obsession
So I’ll watch your life in pictures like I use to watch you sleep and I will feel you forget me like I use to feel you breathe~ Taylor Swift
Pluto Opposition Venus Synastry
Odd attraction, unrequited love, compulsive, repulsive, strongest passion, you cannot be friends afterwards, intensity, defines everything, intoxicating
Pluto Trine Jupiter Synastry
Telepathy, transformation, transcendence, spiritual ties
You are like a deep deep ocean
Pluto trine Ascendant Synastry
Help one another forget your blues, trust one another, deep understanding, and pure attraction. Really “getting” one another, dancing, music, love