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Its a thin line between love and hate

The 7th house in astrology represents the marriage partner, the sign on the cusp represents the qualities you look for in a companion & the planets placed in the 7th house can give insight to the type of relationships you attract or themes in your partnerships. I basically have an empty 7th house but Saturn is at the end of my 6th conjoining my descendent. Father figure issues? Absolutely! I want a man who is a caretaker not necessarily financially but more so emotionally. In any event the 7th house not only represents marriage but open enemies! (The 12th house rules covert enemies). And here in itself we have the thin line between love and hate.

I have Pluto in 8th house aspecting my Sun and Moon so power issues in sexual relationships are likely; these associations also serve as a form of personal growth for me. I’m unsure if we Plutonian types are the only ones privy to this type of emotional grandiose the pendulum of amore swinging from love to hate perhaps someone with a heavy Mars in their chart would experience this as well, possessing a strong disdain for someone that miraculously develops into love or at the least powerful attraction.

Recently I began to think that perhaps hate is merely love masked by hurt!

Being that I’m a Sun square Pluto person and feel everything extreme; love and hate; it is not uncommon for me to seriously dislike someone then all of a sudden find I’m inexplicably drawn to them. I recall having a debate with a man who I really can not stand and as we bickered back and forth I found myself thinking he has nice lips if I could kiss him without anyone knowing I would so grab his face!

Ah if only I could elicit some real life Vampire Diaries compelling action!

Another instance; I dated a Gemini gentleman for an extended period of time, I found him abundantly obnoxious so much so I don’t think I would ever date the sign of the twins again. On our first date he told some woman she couldn’t dress & his shoes cost more than her outfit. I was mortified but when he told me: “if you are bored u can get up and go home”. Did I leave hell no I found him utterly fascinating? Lastly my plutonic love was like some sort of repressed soul all his eccentricity tucked beneath some thinly veiled mask of faux perfection; it drove me nuts it’s like I hated and loved him at the same time. My gay friends in shock when I tell tales of smacking him mid… Well ya know. “In his face”, they asked. YES! In his face! “Hard”, they query. I just couldn’t help myself; that contrast between light and dark. I never knew whether I wanted to hit him or kiss him.

It’s almost like I want to put my finger on the darkness and touch it. I’m attracted to the intensity. I’ve chosen several aspects that highlight these themes, love/hate, aggressive tendencies I find these aspects fascinating

The Sun in one chart in aspect to Mars in another:

The Conjunction:

Mars represents the sex drive one can conclude when the Mars in a man’s chart is the same as a Woman’s sun sign they will energize one another. The man in my opinion will definitely be drawn sexually to the woman. A lot of websites will state this is a great uh not really, well at least not 100%. The Sun in a woman’s chart represents the masculine parts of the woman as well as the ego so you can expect intense arguments. And extreme wilfulness! This is more so apparent in the square and opposition where you are attracted to one another but there is a distinct competitiveness and a tendency for the Sun person to over assert themselves and the Mars will then assert themselves with the end result being an ugly competition though some where hot sex will surely be involved.

Mars in one chart in aspect to Pluto in another

I have written about this before this is deemed by some astrologers as the domestic abuse aspect. Mars God of War in Aspect to Pluto Lord of the Underworld indicates power struggles times 1 million. Pluto on another’s natal planet seeks total transformation where as Mars is more superficial attempting to show might makes right! Someone has to bend or give in but this is highly unlikely unless you are completely evolved and are aware of this aspect. Sexually I think it makes for hot hookups in an 8th house sort of way. Think leather, walking another on a leash! ha!

Pluto in Aspect to Venus

Venus is light superficial, it brings you flowers and writes you poetry. Pluto in aspect to another Venus indicates nothing here is light an fluffy. It’s all or nothing, I love you I hate you I need you go away When Taylor Swift sings :But I miss screaming and fighting and kissing in the rain
and it’s 2am and I’m cursing your name you’re so in love that you act insane and that’s the way I loved you! I thought damn Pluto is somewhere involved here. The opposition which is heavily noted in synastry creates that contrast between light (Venus) and dark (Pluto) it gives that emotional pendulum. An extreme intensity. Sometimes with the square and opposition you are likely to swing between hate and love, perhaps there is even a compulsive element to the feeling; I don’t like a single thing about you but I want to see you any way.

In house overlays someones Mars falling in your 1st house indicates you are directly affected by them, they can rial you up. They can not be ignored. You may have confrontations with them but you just cant let them be.

Speaking of house overlays I have also been rethinking Venus in the 7th house…I use to think to myself ha! My Venus is in your 7th house you are going to love me forever! Someones Venus in your 7th house doesn’t mean you end up together, though that is common…I do think Venus falling in someones 7th house gives them the potential to really hurt you. There again goes that thin line..

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The 7th House in Astrology

The 7th house indicates the type of marriage partners we select via the sign on the cusp or planets placed inside.  Opposite the 1st house ruled by Aries and self significance we find the 7th house ruled by Libra. The 7th house also rules partnerships of all kind including business and any relationship we have that we enter in a legal contract with. Oddly enough the 7th house is also where we go to find Open enemies (the 12th house is where we find secret or hidden enemies)

The Sun in the 7th house primary focus is relating to others, happiest when in committed relationships they may look to others to validate their existence. May chose showy types that have similar Traits to that of a Leo, dominant marriage partners that you feel you can be proud of and shower with admiration

Moon in the 7th house indicates ups and downs in marriage and business partnerships. You require emotional connection in the scope of relationships, bonding you may seek to mother your spouse or enjoy them mothering and nurturing you. The way you feel on a daily basis is in direct correlation with what is happening between you and your spouse or between you and your business partnerships

Mercury in the 7th house demands you have an intellectual connection with partner. You want to talk, talk, talk or you want someone who is quite communicative. Mental stimulation, debates and anything that encourages mental stimulation is required

Venus in the 7th house how very nice for you!! This indicates you attract partners with ease, may appear charming, witty and an ideal candidate for someone to snatch up and declare “i do ” with. Does not indicate depth but rather a desire for someone good-looking and presentable. May also indicate benefiting financially via marriage partner.

Mars in the 7th house ..oh goodness highly sexually and argumentatively charged position with mars. Be careful of others that are out go get you, also tremendous bickering with partners, business and marriage. Fight and make up sex, some more fighting and some more sex! Beware of being overly assertive or selecting partners that are overly aggressive with you.

Jupiter in the 7th house indicates being married more than once, Jupiter is the planet of over doing and optimism, similar to venus but behaves more like it is on steroids indicating you have natural good luck in attracting marriage partners, they may be affluent or as per Bob Marks Astrologer marrying someone in a Jupiter related field, teaching, law. Fortunate aspect in business partnerships.

Saturn in 7th house I sympathize I have Saturn conjunct my descent. Tears I wish someone had told me in my twenties what this meant ! Delays in marriage or being married young, divorced and then remarried later or you may attract an older partner, one that offers financial security in lieu of affection. There is a parent aspect here. Maybe some apprehension and anxiety about committing and who to commit to, but once you do it will be FOREVER! Yippy!

Uranus in the 7th house requires freedom and unconventionality in partnerships. May attract odd partners or odd circumstances with in partnerships. I know someone who has this and Lives in NY and his girlfriend lives in Santa Fe, and that’s exactly how he likes it. You can expect sudden coming together and suddenly coming apart in marriage

Neptune in the 7th house of partnerships, better get a 2nd opinion on marriage partners and read fine print in business partnerships Neptune may indicate that everything looks perfect! Ah-ha but nothing in life is perfect. You may suffer from DDS damsel in Distress syndrome needing to be rescued or attract partners where you get to play hero and save them from themselves. Watch for partners that are deceptive have addiction issues or are overly helpless.

Pluto in the 7th indicates major transformation and your greatest growth comes via partnerships. Power struggles, being controlling, attracting controlling partners power and control are generally reoccurring themes for you