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Marriage BootCamp Zzzzzzzzzzzzzz Tyson and Rachel

Published March 22, 2015 by starsmoonandsun

rachel and tyson synastry

I recently finished watching Marriage Boot camp on WE http://www.wetv.com/shows/marriage-boot-camp , occasionally developing a narcoleptic fit while watching Rachel and Tyson. They seem dead inside she wanted to get married he was dragging his ass after 6 years of dating. Tyson was born under the sun sign of Gemini an air sign associated with Peter Pan and the eternal child. Rachel a lack luster Leo with Sun, Mercury and Jupiter all in the sign of the fixed lion. Fixed signs (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius) don’t like change they cling to what’s familiar. I kept thinking if that’s what love looks like…….PASS.

I was surprised to learn Rachel was a Leo; I have a strong admiration for Leo Ladies and gentleman and have never encountered one as dull. Some famous Leo ladies: Jennifer Lopez, Vivca A Foxx, Coco Chanel, Charlize Theron, Jackie Kennedy, and Halle Berry the list goes on and on.

I ran her and Tyson’s charts I don’t have either birth time so the houses ,overlays and the moon are off.

Rachel actually has a Leo Stellium with her Sun, Mercury and Jupiter all in Leo.  (They married during her Jupiter return)  I expected her Sun to be afflicted by Saturn considering her hmmm how shall I say this; less than enthusiastic disposition but it isn’t. I find people with planets gathered together in one house (she has 4 together) sometimes make for more conservative types with all that energy focused in one area.  Rachel and Tyson also lack a variety of hard aspects. They say pressure makes diamonds ya know. Without hard aspects in the natal chart people can lead a rather straight line in life. Not many challenges, hard aspects (square and opposition) require work, overcoming difficulties, they don’t really have many.

Rachel has Venus planet of love and leisure in comfort seeking Cancer. Ya know the crab holds on tight and doesn’t let go. Venus in Cancer longs for the familiar and what is safe. Her Venus is unaspected and without any major aspects from outer planets a planet operates in purest form. Love of home, familiarity and comfort. Children and having a family are likely important to her. Her Mars (ruler of men the qualities women seek in a partner) is in Gemini Tyson’s sun sign. This can indicate she pursued him, wanted him, and went after him. The Mars of one person on the Sun or Moon in synastry can act as an agent of movement clearly she pushed him into marriage.

The reluctance to marry is immediately spotted in Tyson’s chart when I notice his Venus planet of love, what he seeks in women forms a tight square to Saturn planet of karma, hardship and responsibility. People with Venus in aspect to Saturn or Saturn in the 7th house take marriage seriously. Commitment can give them anxiety, they know marriage is work and enter commitments with a great level of apprehension. His love planet being in Gemini denotes despite taking relationships serious he needs variety in love and a mental connection with Mercury ruling movement and mental stimuli.

Without taking into consideration either of their moon signs I looked at their tightest synastry apsects.  Just as independently in their natal charts they have limited hard aspects, combined they have very few hard aspects. Very few squares and oppositions as we can all see this lack of push and pull can make for a very dull relationship. The tightest hard aspect they had is Venus square Saturn. It is Rachel’s Saturn that squares his Venus. She is the mature one; she is here to teach him, that will forever be the role.

This aspect is binding I have said it a dozen times relationships whether they are exciting or ho hum boring cannot survive without Saturn aspects. Saturn rules the legality of marriage and the responsibility of partnership.

They do not have a predominance of one’s outer planets on another’s inner planets

No Neptune no romanticism and fantasy

No Uranus no electric wild ride

No Pluto no turmoil, no growth and upheaval.

It reinforced the quote for me

“you don’t attract what you want you attract what you are”-Dr Wayne Dyer

They independently do not have challenging aspects so I can’t imagine they would feel comfortable in a relationship that continuously challenges them

“Someone’s planet on your planets acts like a permanent transit”

The tightest nicest aspects they have:

Tyson Venus Sextiles Rachel’s sun I love this aspect; friendship, enjoy each other’s company, perhaps similar leisure activities

Tyson’s Mars (planet of sex) sextiles Rachel’s Venus (Feminine Principal) sextiles represent flowing, easy, harmonious energy so this indicates sexual compatibility

Tyson’s Jupiter in Leo Conjoins Rachel’s Sun and Mercury this is an expansive and forgiving quality so Tyson can bring good vibes and broaden Rachel’s Horizons; in her Survivor questioner she calls Tyson her inspiration…it doesn’t get any more Jupiter then that

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House of Cards Frank Underwood

Published February 12, 2015 by starsmoonandsun

House of Cards returns to Netflix on February 27 for season 3 and I will make sure I have a glass of Bordeaux and a comfy seat on the sofa for my binge. I love when shows assign fictional TV characters birthdates. Most of the time they accurately correspond with the character. Emily Thorne of Revenge is a Cancer, no one does revenge like a water sign, Olivia Pope is a Virgo the manner in which she operates always with precision. Claire Underwood is a dutiful though in her own right; power hungry Taurus and well Frank Underwood he is Scorpio born November 5, 1959.

Money, Power, Respect

 The Scorpio Sun

The Sign of Scorpio naturally gravitates toward power and money. Scorpios are slow moving and calculating, natural rulers of the 8th house they rule death, transformation, power, other peoples resources; some Scorpio adjectives are secretive, manipulative, resourceful and obsessive. They don’t bend or give up easily, if at all.

God of War

You can see in Franks Chart he has Sun in Scorpio conjunct Mars, Mars is the traditional ruler of Scorpio with Pluto being the modern ruler. The Sun conjunct Mars makes Frank willful. A Prominent Mars is common in those that have a military and/or an athletic background, the nature of Mars is competitive. Mars is the planet considered the God of War. According to Frank Underwood’s bio he attended the Military School: The Sentinel. And episode after episode we see him manipulating others to adhere to his will. You’ll notice his strength isn’t boastful; its quiet yet intimidating this is the nature of Scorpio. His Sun in Scorpio also conjoins Neptune in Scorpio as we know Underwood is one prone to underhanded deals, and promises with him are often made with fingers crossed behind his back. People may look to Frank to save them (also a trait of Neptune being a savior). He may seem to have all the answers and offer dreams of grandeur along with a seat some place beside him in the Oval Office. The Sun Conjunct Neptune individual has the ability to hide their true motivations this is only enhanced by Scorpios nature to always remain poker faced even when confronted with great catastrophe they will never show their hand.

His marriage to Claire

Although we do not have his exact time of birth; the moon was in Capricorn that day so naturally Frank gravitates towards an accomplished woman, one that is respectable, perhaps a woman that has the ability to enhance his status. The moon is also representative of feelings; it is in detriment here so there is certain coolness, this isn’t a tender, expressive and affectionate person there is an austere vibe and a practicality to the Capricorn moon individual. Planets in Capricorn often ask will this work? Clearly his relationship with Claire works, she has sacrificed her own dreams to foster his, achievement is synonymous with Capricorn, as is reputation, and career .Claire clearly fits the bill. Underwood has Venus in Virgo (another planet in detriment both ruling feminine principals one would have to wonder what his childhood/mother was like) Venus square Saturn suggests coolness in relationships. The Venus/Saturn person doesn’t trust easily so they prefer a partner who is reliable and trustworthy above all else. We can clearly see him and Claire aren’t affectionate; they strategize, while smoking cigarettes sometimes electronic out the window. They are clearly committed despite their rendezvous with randoms (Scorpio after all rules sex and Neptune conjunct Mars isn’t particular about with whom)-but this isn’t the type of couple to kiss and hold hands and feed one another cake on a Saturday night. When Venus aspects Saturn there is no doubt a devoted quality, but love takes on a Capricorn vibe another indicator of love (Venus) and work (Saturn) somehow going hand in hand. I suppose they are working together hand and hand to get ahead.

I’m curious to see what season 3 brings but I have no doubt it will be just as duplicitous as the first 2 seasons. Frank Underwood also has exact Mercury/Pluto Square Astrologer Adrian Duncan wrote in his book Astrology Transformation and Empowerment

Mercury and Pluto: Secrets and Lies

“People with this aspect are born detectives. They have the ability to divine what is going on beneath the surface and the desire to probe others secrets”

Have at it Frank

xo

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The Astrology of Love & Hip Hop of Hollywood

Published November 23, 2014 by starsmoonandsun

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Real Housewives of Beverly Hills Brandi vs. Joyce Round 1

Published January 14, 2014 by starsmoonandsun

Brandi

brandi glanville

Without a time of birth I’m going to assume Brandi moon sign is in the sign of the warrior, Aries. If she was born prior to 4pm she would have a Pisces moon; sympathetic and dreamy An Aries moon on the other hand is direct, forceful, blunt, I have this placement we can be forceful not everyone can handle this. It gives an odd dichotomy to her Scorpio Sun, which is secretive, private, in search of control, protective. Mercury planet of communication was retrograde when Brandi was born in its sign of detriment no less, Sagittarius. This in itself may make it hard to communicate, opposing her natal Saturn planet of Karma and rules I have no doubt she has told a number of people to go fuck themselves. This isn’t a meek woman, with her Moon in Aries opposite Pluto she will likely come face to face with many women, need to take her power from women and show who is top dog. Venus planet of love and finances is conjunct wild card Uranus indicating unusual romances will be a theme in her life as will sudden marriages and just as quick divorces. It is likely she will often be privy to sudden windfalls in terms of money and just as quick; loses. I think it is safe to say she does have some issues with alcohol with Neptune making an aspect to most of her personal planets Neptune after all is the planet of escapism, addiction, though this also the reason she was most likely a model as it adds a certain mystique and glamour. Neptune conjunct the sun often brings father issues perhaps he himself had addiction issues or you see him as some god like figure. In any event women with Neptune on the sun need to be careful as to who they chose to partner with this is highly indicative of picking up addicts, swindlers and conartists. The upswing being with creative types, actors, perhaps musicians.

Now here we have Joyce
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An Aries Sun, similar to Brandi’s moon, she is combative, forceful, direct Aries Suns want to be first, they want to be known as special; this is like 2 rams battling. Personally Aries moon trumps the Aries sun in feisty and forcefulness because while the sun attributes are often learned the moon is instinctual. It is obvious to the naked eye that Joyce cannot mentally spar with Brandi; she cannot go wit for wit. Unlike Brandi with her Sun conjoining Neptune, Joyce has Sun square Saturn… this doesn’t make for a life of the party. Often the Sun square Saturn person has a history of depression inherited from the father. They often marry for financial reasons and security and feel they have to work twice as hard as everyone else to get ahead. Joyce moon is in the moons sign of detriment, Capricorn concerned with achievement and stability. Her mother may have been the father figure in the home. Her moon which represents the women in her life is square wildcard Uranus. Whereas Brandi may wrestle or fight for power or dominance with women (Notice she felt Lisa somehow was controlling her) but with Joyce square to Uranus, this isn’t a “girls girl placement” This is a women that perhaps wasn’t nurtured as a child, can be emotionally cold and distant, has erratic an inconsistent relationships with women.

The Issues, drama and the synastry
Brandi Sun in Scorpio is opposite Joyce Venus in Taurus AND Vice Versa (Double whammy) Joyce Sun in Aries is opposed by Brandi Venus in Libra
The Sun is your identity, how you present yourself when opposite another person’s Venus which is related to values, aesthetics this indicates that Brandi most likely finds Joyce superficial (Venus in Taurus) and Joyce doesn’t care for the way Brandi presents herself (Sun in Scorpio)

Brandi Sun in Scorpio is opposite Joyce Mars in Aquarius
If this was a love affair the disagreements would be epic. The Sun is how you shine the manner in which you present yourself, the way you say ta-da and here comes Mars challenging your identify, pushing you, agitating you

Brandi’ Moon conjoins Joyce Mercury
When the moon (emotions) is in aspect to another person’s Mercury (logic) it is difficult o maintain balance. Conversations become emotional; it is difficult to take a step back. Even if the moon person (In this case Brandi) wants to maintain some emotional distance it is likely the Mercury person experiences the moon person as being emotional

Brandi moon is opposed by Joyce’s Pluto no doubt Brandi feels threatened and challenged by Joyce. I’m not saying she is jealous, but something about Joyce threatens her security. Recently Brandi made mention that because of some comments Joyce made Brandi could’ve had her children taken away. The moon is the mother; Pluto can be ruthless on the moon, the moon person can feel exposed by the Pluto person.

No Love Lost here
Brandi Venus in Libra is squared by Joyce Saturn in Cancer
Venus is love, money and affection you never want someone’s Saturn on your Venus. I’m sorry I’m just putting it out there. Saturn is too cold, ridged and miserly on Venus. Saturn is concerned with what’s right, Saturn is the planet of rigidly No wonder she didn’t get in the pool at the pool party. Ha!
Brandi Mars in Scorpio Squares Joyce Moon in Capricorn, similar to the sun mars opposition only in this case Joyce feels emotionally poked at by Brandi, she feels Brandi is an instigator.

I’m not a fan of either, if I had to choose one I would take Brandi. Joyce bores me. But I must say the more I study astrology and synastry I realize that rarely is someone a “bad person”, we just have less than ideal synastry with people. This is a case where I would suggest they leave one another alone. This may be hard for Joyce seeing how she is so dull; she needs to riel up Brandi for some camera time. Xo

The Madonna Whore Complex & The Man that looks good on Paper

Published July 20, 2012 by starsmoonandsun

In my dreams I am documentary film maker following people to see whom they love and whom they marry; usually they aren’t the same person. When I meet people and hear they are married I often ask questions that other people wouldn’t dare to ask like, is he/she “the one”, do you have “one that got away”, you would be surprised at people’s candor. Most times the truth comes pouring out, once while heading home from a night out my taxi driver confessed he should have married someone else but picked a woman that would be a good mother to his children. Talk about taxi cab confessions. I feel this topic comes up most with males, where as females pick a “good provider”. These sentences horrify me while at 35 I remain single. Settling for less than is simply not on my agenda. With a virtually unaspected Venus with the exception of it trining Pluto, I can’t imagine marrying” the get by guy. Like he is just good enough, he will do. Like a pair of shoes that are a little tight but they are 70% off so fuck it you will buy them anyway. Many many years ago someone told me they believed I needed someone I could ride through life with and this couldn’t be more true. With natal sun in the 5th house a good provider isn’t on the agenda, a nice bonus by all means but I need someone that I can enjoy life with, I want to slow dance when we are 10 years in, take yearly vacation perhaps minus children to keep our sexy going as a couple. But until that day comes I listen to others tales of woe about whom they have married. Once I met a Sagittarius man that wed a Cancer woman, I was like hmmm. He confessed he should have married someone else. Mind you this is all happening while waiting on line at a convenience store. I said a “Cancer” cringe, that’s a tough one. Gave him a short synopsis on how Cancers are homebodies and Sagittarius belong to the world blah blah blah I said I see you more so with a Gemini, Well behold his one that got away, he still remembered her birthday 15+ years later was a Gemini. I want to tell him I’m also a notary and would be happy to extend my services if he should want to get divorced. Astrology readings and notarization. That is what you call one stop shopping. But she was married and living somewhere else and his kids were still in high school etc etc.

Look I’m in no way a specialist in the relationship department, I don’t claim to be but I feel with my entire being if people married who they truly loved this country would have a lot less divorces. People that get your blood going PASSION with passion there would be a lot less affars.Not the person your parents prefer not the man who buys you a big house but he is always at work so you never see each other (Venus in Square to Saturn in a woman’s chart) not the woman that is a great mother prototype but you have 0 desire to sneak up on her in the morning shower (moon in hard aspect to Venus in a man’s chart). But the one you want with your entire being.

In a man’s chart

Moon opposition/square Venus

A man with the Moon (mother, feelings, nurturing, ) in hard aspect (opposition or square) to Venus (love, beauty, sex, intimacy) is prone to these types of choices in love. They cannot reconcile the mother of their children and the person they want to ravage in the morning shower. The truth is you can marry someone that is great with children and gets your libido going! Someone can be a mother, a whore in the bedroom and a housewife. I encourage men to be aware of this aspect so they aren’t marrying someone who essentially after time they do not want to be intimate with. Madonna/Whore Complex is activated here. They see a woman and put her in a category Wife check or Sex Check

 

In a woman’s chart

Venus opposition square Saturn

I have had several clients with this aspect and I tell them to have their eyes wide open with the selection of a mate. This indicates the woman that marries the practical man, the husband that goes to work every day and is dutiful in paying the bills. YAWN! Venus in hard aspect leaves the woman feeling that this is love, that perhaps love isn’t warm and fuzzy that it is work and responsibility. Maybe she is more concerned with being comfortable financially. Please be advised like the Eagles sang, “A big old house gets lonely, every form of refuge has its price”

 

In closing I don’t have the answers, sometimes secretly or not so secretly now I wish I could be that woman that is practical. That marries the man that looks good on paper, but it goes against all I believe in of love. I think astrology brings to the forefront all of inner most working and if we acknowledge them and work on the more challenging aspects we can be free to live a life of abundance…hopefully with true love beside us.

 

Xoxo

Love Peace Happiness & a Few Wild Horses

 

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